How to overcome low self-esteem in relationships (Using this Powerful chakra meditation)
There is a book called The
Art of War, written by Sun Tzu. In that book, he goes over a bunch of war
strategies. However, Sun Tzu approach is not just tactical it is psychological.
In fact, in his book, he talks about how wars are only one, when you completely
destroy the other person’s self-confidence. When people’s self-confidence is
destroyed, they become susceptible to manipulation, mind control and yes exploitation. So, what am I saying here? I am saying that
people and huge business and corporations are making serious bank on you having
low self-esteem. Low self-esteem, not
only puts you in a losing situation in business, and your career, but also in
relationships. So, in this video, I am going to give you a powerful chakra
meditation, that will not only help you build your self-confidence, but will
also improve your relationship.
How to overcome low self-esteem and insecurities
There is an old African play that I really enjoyed called, Damaged. In that play, Africans from a
neighboring tribe would rape the women as a war tactic. After these women were
raped, they were ostracized, removed from their village, and barred from ever
seeing their husbands and children again. To make matters worse, these women
were labeled as damaged. No one would hire them, so they then were forced to
work at the brothel houses, where of course they were subject to all forms of
abuse.
How to overcome low self-esteem and depression
Rape, has always been viewed as one of the most heinous
crimes. Why, well because it causes irreparable harm to the woman and/or man.
Very few people understand that sexual intercourse is an exchange of energy.
However, when they exchange is forced, or not loving, energetic dumbing occurs.
This is a process where one person is literally dumping virtually all of
his/her negative energy into the other person. The man, can walk away, feeling
free and liberated, while the woman is left carrying all that negative energy.
Now, back in our ancestors’ day, there was a way for women to dispel this
negative energy. However, without the goddess, or the divine feminine, many
women are walking around with a great deal of pint of negative energy. This
negative energy manifest as both depression and extreme self-hate.
Low Self Esteem in Childhood
Now, with television and the Internet, this energetic
dumping isn’t just taken place through sex. A young woman can watch a program
or watch a video on YouTube and become a victim of negative energy dumping. We
can see this with the subliminal images that we are constantly being forced to
watch. There is a certain standard of beauty that a woman must adhere to. In
the Western world, we call this phenomenal the politics of beauty. This system rewards the most beautiful women
with better jobs, more money, and even a nice-looking husband. We can peruse
social media and see how beautiful and seductive women get more clicks and
views. In truth, women are rewarded if they work hard to adhere to society’s
standards of beauty. While, others, are penalized. They’re made to feel
inadequate, inferior, and in a sense unlovable. This causes the women, who
don’t adhere to the standards of beauty, to feel badly about themselves. As a result, they suffer from low self-esteem,
and thus suffer from more energetic dumping from exploitative and misogynic
men.
How to overcome low self-esteem in relationships
Sadly, these women are the ones who suffer the most in
relationships. In most situations, they are made to carry the baggage of
everyone in their family. In fact, Zora Neal Hurston said it best, when she
said that women are the mules of the earth.
Women with low self-esteem will put up with an abusive husband/or
boyfriend. They will turn a blind eye when he cheats, or has extra-marital
affairs. They’re made to feel terrible about themselves when he leaves to be
with someone else. They are programmed to think that it is their fault, when he neglects and or worse abandons his
children. These women can’t understand why a man can walk away without feeling
any remorse. Well, the man doesn’t feel a damn thing, because he’s just dumping
all of his negative energy into every woman that he comes into contact with.
How to overcome low self-esteem and confidence
Women who are victims of negative energy, become very
haggard. They carry the energy on their bodies. They store the energy inside of
their wombs. As a result of this, the
energy degrades. The woman can’t attract a good man, or friends for that matter.
She can’t manifest great opportunities. So, the first thing that you need to
learn how to do is release this energy. Remember, magic is all about balance.
Too much negativity can cause degradation. However, when we work to rebalance
those scales, we can heal the wounds, and thus improve the relationships.
Now, the first thing that you need to do is restore balance.
You can start by focusing on the 2nd chakra. Also known in Vedic
literature as being the swadhistana chakra. You can simply sit cross legged, or
lay down. However, when doing this exercise, make sure that your back is
straight. When you do this, you can start to chant the sound Vang. Do this for
five minutes each day when you wake up in the morning. In time, you will start to
see a difference.
Now, for those of you, who aren’t familiar with the chakra
system. You can reach out the Yoruba deity Yemaya. Yemaya is syncretized with
the second chakra, the womb, and sexual energy. You can start to clean and
restore your sexual energy using the following ritual.
1.
Create an altar for Yemaya
2.
Be sure that you place white flowers, white or
blue candles and seashells
3.
You can give her some fish as an offering
4.
Write your petition on a piece of paper (Yemaya,
please help me dispel the negative energy that is ruining my relationship, and
causes me to have low self-confidence).
5.
Place the petition on the altar, under the
candle
6.
Run the bath water
7.
Pour some salt in the water
8.
Sit in it as long as you can
Normally, when people do this ritual, they get really
emotional. In fact, they find themselves sobbing uncontrollably. If you’re
crying then, you’re doing something right. Keep doing this until you feel
better.
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